💫 About Me – Cuzzin Pam 🌙✨
Hey, I’m Cuzzin Pam — most people just call me Pam.
I grew up on the rez in New Mexico, bouncing between schools — Naschitti, Tohatchi, Newcomb, Shiprock, Manzano High in Albuquerque, and Central High in Phoenix. For a long time, I didn’t feel like I belonged anywhere.
Life hasn’t been easy. I’ve survived abuse, trauma, loss, and regret. I was with my husband for almost 30 years before he passed. I’ve lived through love, loneliness, and the heavy moments that come with them. Through it all, I keep going — and even when it’s hard, you’ll usually catch me smiling or laughing. My struggles are hidden behind my smile, but I don’t let them stop me.
For over 20 years, I’ve worked in the health field. A lot of people know me even though I keep a small circle — sober me doesn’t have many friends, but drunk me sure had plenty. This project, AZ Dream Catchers, has honestly helped me slow down on drinking because it’s taken so much of my time, money, and heart.
Dating after loss? It’s rough. None of the big dating apps felt right — they don’t understand us, our humor, or our struggles. That’s why I built this site. I wanted something real — a place for Indigenous people to connect without the BS.
💄 I’m a collector — purses, makeup, eyewear, headbands, and perfume.
🤘 I’m a heavy metal fan who loves concerts.
🦋 I’ve always been a social butterfly — usually with a drink in my hand, but I’m learning that sober connections can be just as strong.
👜 My Purse Obsession in Action 💛
This is me — not perfect, not polished, but real. If you’re here, welcome to the circle. Let’s see where it takes us.
And just so you know — this whole thing started off as a joke on Facebook. One day, sitting with a drink in my hand, I started piecing things together… and before I knew it — wah-lah — I had made a site. What started as a joke turned into something real.
“This isn’t just a dating site — it’s healing, laughter, and hope wrapped in one circle.”
“I want this space to feel like home — where we can laugh, flirt, heal, and connect with respect and realness.”
🌙 My World in Pictures
From mosh pits to memories — this is me, loud, loyal, and still laughing.
🎶 My Concert Adventures
These shows keep me alive — Korn, Slipknot, Five Finger Death Punch, Disturbed, Pantera and more.
Heavy metal, good people, and nights filled with loud music and louder laughs.
It’s my happy place where I can just be myself 🤘💜.
❤️ Family & Memories
These are the pieces of my heart — my husband, my kids, and moments that shaped me.
Through love, loss, and everything between, I’ve learned that even in the toughest times,
you can still smile, still laugh, and still keep going 💫.
Thanks for stopping by and seeing a little of my world 💛
If you’re here, welcome to the circle — let’s see where it takes us 🌙✨
🌙 The Heart Behind AZ Dream Catchers
Every dream has a story — this one started with love, loss, culture, and courage. When I wanted to give up, I reminded myself why I started… and how I kept moving forward.
💫 WHY I KEEP GOING
- 🌿 Because I’m building something no one else had the courage to start. — A space by and for Indigenous people where we’re seen, heard, and celebrated.
- 💞 Because someone out there needs this community. — Someone lonely or tired of being misunderstood will finally feel they belong.
- 🪶 Because culture matters. — Every turquoise hue, every story, every song I add connects generations.
- 🌺 Because representation is healing. — AZ Dream Catchers gives Native people a modern platform rooted in identity and respect.
- 🔥 Because I promised myself I’d finish what I started. — Even when I’m tired, I remember how far I’ve come.
- 🌄 Because my work honors those I’ve lost and those still here. — This dream is part of my love, my grief, my resilience.
- 🌞 Because my smile, my spirit, and my heart are part of this brand. — People feel that — it’s what makes this different.
- 💎 Because I’m not just making a website; I’m making history. — Every page proves Indigenous voices can own their digital spaces too.
☀️ HOW I KEEP GOING
- 🌾 I remind myself: progress over perfection. — It doesn’t have to be done in one night; one step at a time is enough.
- 🎉 I celebrate the small wins. — Every section finished, every new connection made is a victory.
- 🕊️ I rest when I need to. — Breaks aren’t giving up — they’re recharging for the next big move.
- 🌻 I surround myself with good energy. — Music, laughter, and people who believe in me fuel my fire.
- 💫 I look back at what I’ve already done. — From a simple idea to a growing platform — proof of strength.
- 🌈 I keep learning. — Every fix, layout, and upgrade means I’m leveling up — not failing.
- 💧 I remember it’s okay to cry, pause, or restart. — That’s not weakness — it’s being human.
- 💖 I trust that everything I’m building has purpose. — Even when it’s slow, it’s still moving forward.
“To everyone chasing their dreams — keep going. You never know who’s watching you find your light.” ✨
🔥 WHAT FUELS MY FIRE
When I started building AZ Dream Catchers, not everyone understood what I was doing. Some laughed. Some doubted. Some thought it was just a little “project.” But every laugh, every eye roll, every comment — it lit a fire under me. A reminder that I wasn’t building this for them. I was building it for us.
That fire became fuel — not just from the doubt, but from the encouragement too. Every person who said “keep going,” every message of support, every smile of belief — it all poured into the same flame that drives me forward today.
🔥 The ones who laughed will remember my name when they see this community thrive.
🌟 The ones who believed will know their faith helped it grow.
💫 And I’ll know — I turned every spark into something powerful, beautiful, and real.
I don’t chase approval anymore — I chase purpose. And that’s what keeps my fire burning. 🔥